Teenage Pregnancy, it's an age old problem but it seems that nowadays it is becoming a normal event to hear that your teen neighbor is pregnant. The Problem? Teen Curiosity, Rebelliousness but more of the part where most of them did not have the guts to say "No".
Teens who did not enjoy their childhood because at an early age they have the responsibilities to take care of their own child. Teens who out of "Love" did it to the extremes and did a "mistake". Teens who just did it because they are curious on how it feels to do "it". Teens who just did it out of hate towards their parents. Teens who have been robbed of their dignity, purity and chance to enjoy their teenage years free of worry because they did not have the guts to SAY NO. Of course there will be the usual alibi "I love him and I do not regret such.", Ladies, speaking as a dude, No need for sex to prove your mutual love, that should be done on a later stage of life. I'm getting worried of the normalcy of such news and I am worried that even I ain't surprised to hear such news no more.
How could you prevent such? Well if you ask me my number one advise is to "SAY NO", yep say no and everything'll be alright, if he gets mad ditch him, he is a worthless douche who only wants to get into your pants. "There are contraceptives, we'll just use 'em." - The usual argument, still a no no. Sex is an act done by adults and not by teens or kids, so please dudes just don't do it.
How about to those who are already down and out? To those who are already pregnant or might be afraid to be pregnant, I suggest continuing with it, don't abort it. It's your fault not the baby's, if there is anyone to blame it's you, you were too itchy to stop your primitive urges, if you are afraid that the kid will grow up to an environment which is not conducive for living for such a child, why the hell haven't you thought of that in the first place before getting knocked out? Afraid of your Dignity being ruined? Please you already ruined it the moment you let your boyfriend or your friend get into your pants, so you pretty much have no dignity to protect.
My Final advice? Don't do it. Already done it and afraid you are pregnant? Get a check up, tell your parents and keep it no matter what, you already felt seven minutes in heaven, now it's your turn to have a lifetime responsibility. Don't want any responsibilities? Then don't do it.
For my Male friends out there, I know you have urges of yourselves, I know you are eager to do such. But please think about the suffering you'll bring your parents, your girl's parents and your girl of course. Before our primal douche attitudes take over us, it's better to think it out, too hot? Take a bath, that's what my Religion teacher always told us.
And here is another issue tackled by yours truly.
I saw it in the eyes of a teen.
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